City Streets – Guest Post

Another guest post – this time from my Dad, who seems to have inherited his father’s storytelling skills. Enjoy!

Almost everything here is unlike my usual driving experience.  Lane markings, if any, are merely suggestive; signal lights seem rare; right turn on red does not require a stop; motorcycles go wherever there is an inch clearance; pedestrians cross busy streets one virtual lane at a time pausing to trot across in front of oncoming vehicles.  It is all quite exciting and it works amazingly well.

Variety.  There is huge variety of conveyance on the streets.  People walking (side walks may disappear at random), bicycles, pedicabs, rickshaw-like things with motorcycle fronts, tiny three-wheeled trucks spewing their two-cycle smoke, single- and double-cab mini trucks, taxis and more taxis in red, yellow, green and blue, bread-loaf vans, cars of all sizes and prices, medium sized trucks, vans and buses, and large heavy duty trucks all compete for space on the road and usually do not crash.  The motorcycle taxi drivers and city bus drivers seem to be the best at quickly getting from A to B.  Liberal use of horns announces presence, impatience, or anger.

So many different car brands.  Volkswagen, Citroen, Peugot, Chana, Hyundai, Geely, BYD, Brilliance, Buick, Chevrolet, Cadillac, BMW, Audi, Mecredes-Benz, Chery, Mazda, Nissan, Toyota, Honda, Rouwe, Ford, Kia, and I’m sure there are others.  They range from the tiniest to large luxury sedans and SUVs.

In the shopping areas cars are parked on the wide sidewalk.  I’m sure there is someone collecting a fee.  It must be quite a trick to get them in and out of parking places with all the pedestrians walking by so close.

The taxis and buses all run on CNG instead of diesel or gasoline and they all seem to have manual transmissions.  I suppose only the big luxury cars have automatics.

City Zoo – Guest Post

Although my Mom and Dad have gone home, I asked Mom if I could use an excerpt from her travel journal for a guest post on our blog. I may be doing this several times over the next few weeks, to let you see where we are from the perspective of someone who’s not always here. Enjoy!

Karen’s tutor, May, arrived at the apartment shortly before 10, and we waited for Travis to get home before leaving for the park.

On this bus trip, we saw our first near vehicle accident. I mentioned before that lane markers don’t really mean anything, and every driver is doing his best to squeeze into nonexistent spaces. This time, a truck driver came a bit close to our bus, and his load actually bumped the mirror of the bus. Both vehicles stopped immediately, while the drivers got out and discussed how best to separate the two vehicles without any damage. At least, that is what I assume they were discussing, as I couldn’t understand a word they were saying. Eventually, they settled on a plan, got untangled, and we were on our way once again.

By the time we rode the bus to the end of the line, where the park was located, it was nearly lunch time, so we headed off for the famous Lanzhou beef noodles at a local restaurant. They were quite yummy.

The park was up on a hillside, so we climbed lots of steps to get to the entrance.  Chinese steps tend to have low risers and long steps, so they weren’t very steep. It’s a good thing Andy & I are in pretty good shape so we could climb all those steps! When we had wandered in the park for awhile, we came to the entrance to a zoo. After some debate, we determined that it would be worth the  6 kuai per person (that’s a little less than a dollar) entrance fee to go in. Melody certainly enjoyed seeing the animals, and they had quite a selection – giraffes, zebras, camels, various bears, including a panda bear, lions, tigers, leopards,  deer, goats, vultures, various monkeys, wolves, and elephant with a very proud keeper, a collection of birds, and others I’ve probably forgotten. It was an old-style zoo. You could see the animals very well because they were in enclosures very close to the walkways – not in their natural habitats. That part was a little sad. The most entertaining part was the monkey island. The viewing area overlooked the monkeys’ rocky habitat. From time to time, visitors would toss plastic drink bottles into the pit. It was amazing to watch how adept the monkeys were at removing the bottle caps. Most of them didn’t know how to drink the liquid without spilling much of it. One I saw poured the drink out on the ground, and then lapped it up. There were many fights over the bottles, but one mama monkey snuck off with her bottle into a cave, opened it there, and carefully drank from it.

On our way out of the zoo, we passed some kiddie amusement park rides. It seemed a little out of place when we heard a train playing “Yankee Doodle Dandy,” especially when the words – all in English – were added to the tune.

New tutor(s)

So when this semester started, I lost my two tutors from last semester, as they entered a busier semester themselves. Therefore, I started looking for a new tutor.

A friend of mine started with a tutor she met while she was going to a different school a couple years ago, and this new tutor, it turns out, is available to meet with me, too. I’ve been meeting with her once a week for a few weeks now.

I kind of figured that, as a mother, I’m pretty busy already, so I shouldn’t subject myself to more than one lesson a week (at least if I have to plan for every lesson and review from every lesson in addition to the actual time of the lesson).

Somebody obviously thinks I need to put more time and effort into my language learning, because I’ve had chances at two additional tutors. The first one, I turned down, as I hadn’t even met with my tutor yet, so I didn’t know if I would be overwhelmed with one session per week. After a few weeks of study, though, when another friend texted, I thought I’d better respond.

My friend, who is also a foreigner, knew a girl who’s looking for work, and until she finds it, she’s going crazy at home with nothing to do. So I texted her. That was yesterday. Today my parents will arrive and stay with us for two weeks, so I decided I’d better move fast. She came over today. After our hour-and-a-half study session (which I prepared for a total of ZERO hours), she stayed another hour and I translated The Very Hungry Caterpillar into Chinese for her, and we played with Melody together.

Both of my new tutors seem to be a good fit, and the two seem to have different strengths, so I’m glad to have both of them. For now, anyway. Because my first new tutor graduates in June, and then she’s moving home to teach in her hometown, and who knows when my second new tutor will get a job. Hopefully though, we can become good friends, and even when she gets a job, we’ll be able to meet sometimes to talk.

Breath of Fresh Air

Today we went to the countryside to visit my tutor’s family. It’s a national holiday, basically Labor Day, so just about everyone had the day off school and work, so we went to breathe some fresh air and “play” (the Chinese word “play” is much more widely used than the English).

Observation number one: The air (while thinner at 8000 feet elevation) is much cleaner and definitely did our lungs some good. We took a long walk in the afternoon and enjoyed breathing clearly.

Observation number two: Having a new car makes hired drivers drive more safely. He even slowed down for the pot holes! He also got pulled over at the toll booth because he hadn’t put the license plate on the van yet. Maybe he didn’t want it to get stolen? Because after displaying it at the toll booth, he put it back in the envelope on his dashboard.

Observation number three: People care a lot about education, if they can afford it. My tutor (about to graduate from college and become a teacher in her hometown) is one of the few students from the countryside who actually graduate from high school, much less college. A lot of that is because the majority of those kids don’t actually speak Chinese – which makes it hard to go to school. But my tutor, whose family apparently has enough money to put three kids in college, was sent away to boarding school in another town at the age of ten, because the other school was supposed to prepare her better for college entrance exams.

Observation number four: My definition of polite hosting does not equal theirs. When they brought out food for us to eat, around 11:30am, we urged the host to sit down and eat with us. He said they just ate. Breakfast. At 9:00. He then told us they have a custom of the host not eating with the guests. We asked if there is a custom of guests making the host eat with them. He said no. I suspect that as they took the serving plates of unfinished food back to the kitchen, they just might have snacked a bit.

Observation number five: The countryside is relaxing! Though we went with a group of seven adults and four babies under 2, and stayed all day, through unsuccessful feedings and missed naps, we (at least Travis and I) came home feeling the most refreshed we have in a long while. Makes me want to go back as often as I can!

Gate Guards

A couple weeks ago, we found out why all neighborhoods in our city have gate guards.

We had some extra time one evening and decided to go to another part of the city to walk around and do a bit of shopping. We took Melody’s supper with us, and thought we’d sit on a park bench and feed her. We got to said park bench, and after answering the curious questions of locals, who were shocked to see an almost-10-month-old picking up and eating pieces of chicken, we took a look around.

Behind us, sitting on the sidewalk, was a rather unsavory looking character, who had spread out all manner of objects on the ground and taken out a notebook, apparently to take notes on us as he openly stared. Among his treasures was a [rather real-looking] toy[?] pistol. A note about China: firearms are illegal, so toy guns are usually pretty real-looking. Rather surprising to see a grown man with a toy pistol though. Another man stood in front of us behind a lamp post, watching the proceedings, and a third stood off to our left, also watching and looking concerned. It didn’t take us long to decide it would be wise to go somewhere else.

Interestingly, I’ve never had problems when I’ve taken Melody to parks and playgrounds inside the school campus or nearby apartment complexes. My guess is, that’s because those places have guards at all the gates, making sure the unsavory sorts don’t get in.

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